"Blacks need to stand up and be responsible for their own actions and choices and quit relying on the Government to bail them out every time they fuck up."
Easy to say and I actually may have said the same thing some years ago. The only little problem I see is that if a kid is born to a drug addict mom and dad is in jail, well, that kid does not have much of a choice. does he??. In fact, the odds are stacked overwhelmingly against him. He is quite an innocent victim of history.
It should not be a black or white thing. It should be a human thing. There's something useful from the conservative argument and there is something useful from the liberal argument. However, conservatives don't get it and liberals don't get it either. The former expects everyone to perform the same because the opportunity is equal to everyone, but it is not. Liberals, on the other hand, assumed equal performance if it weren't for the oppression by one group over another, but that's is rarely a factor. The reality is that many have been dealt a great hand in life, while many others have been dealt a lousy hand. Requiring personal responsibility can be useful as long as some compassion is added. Toby, you and I were quite lucky, many others weren't.